Something happened a couple of months ago that I am still wondering how on earth it happened. It has left me pondering many things and contemplating the future like nothing else ever has. What is this momentous happening? I turned Sixty years old. SIXTY!!!!!! That seems absolutely impossible. I still feel like a kid! How can I possibly be 6-0 years old???? But no matter how many times I subtract 1956 from 2016, I still come up with 60. The calendar is not wrong.
The only other birthday that has ever rocked my world even a bit was Twenty. For some odd reason it bothered me when I realized I was no longer a teenager. Thirty didn’t bother me, neither did Forty or Fifty. But there is something about Sixty that has really gotten my attention! I think it was when I realized Sixty is just ten years from Seventy and knowing how fast ten years goes by. I may not consider myself a senior citizen yet, but I am fast approaching it. Maybe it’s that I’ve had little hints my body is starting to not work quite as well as it did in years gone by. Nothing big, small things, like a knee that doesn’t like going up steps, feet that REALLY hurt at the end of everyday, the extra effort and thought it takes to climb into the bed of a pickup or a big truck, and feeling just a touch of fear and taking a moment to get a good hold on the handrail before I start down our basement steps.
Whatever it is, it has made me think and wonder. Wonder about the future. What does it hold? What will I face in the next couple decades? Will I lose Mark? Losing their spouse is something many people face as they enter their later years. We have so much fun right now, taking care of our “little farm” and raising our own food. But as knees and backs and hearts age more, will we still be able to keep doing the things we like to do? Whenever we struggle to do something, but succeed in getting it done we often say to the other one, someday I won’t be able to do that, but today wasn’t that day!
Honestly though, it has made me wonder even more about the past. Have I cherished life enough? Have I taken the time to do what is important? Have I left kindness and compassion in my wake or have I been too preoccupied in my own little world to notice others struggles? Do my kids and grandkids know just how very much I love them and that they are the biggest blessing God could have ever given me? And speaking of God, am I a disappointment to Him? Have I done anything that even matters in the sight of eternity? What more should I do? How much time have I wasted on things that do not matter?
I guess it definitely is not a bad thing to have a birthday come around that makes me stop and count my days, makes me want to make the most of the ones I have left, makes me think about how I am living my life and want to correct whatever I am doing wrong. Now I need to get past the pondering and get to the doing! Someday I may not be able to do the things I still want and need to do, but today is not that day!